Monday, March 20, 2006

little cute stuff





Ivan has brought so much love, laughter and fun into our home and world. It's amazing to watch him grow and learn and hillarious to see him picking up so many behaviors like the hand on the hip pose. Where did that come from? Children are so giving and it opens us all up to love and friendliness. Everywhere we go, he waves or says "hi" to people or more often than not, people first say "hi" to him. Sometimes he acts shy and other times he lights up with a smile or responds back. Why aren't we like this normally? Are we too cool? Too embarassed? Annoyed by adults who strike up conversations, but open with kids? I guess kids are not threatening. They accept us as we are and are receptive to about everything we do in love. I am thrilled as I watch how my son can walk into a room or place and make the atmosphere warmer by ten degrees just by his presence. People start talking, interacting, sharing, just because he is there. Then I get to join in. All because of a child's just being there. They are small and vulnerable, but perhaps the most effective section of humanity at changing our demeanor, turning frowns to smiles, bringing out joyful greetings and comments... and all this just by showing up! There is really a very powerful presence in these seemingly "incapable" little beings. Ivan can't talk, or take care of his daily needs. He can't discuss or explain. He doesn't create much, except messes. He doesn't "accomplish" much as the world may view it, but he can do more for the elderly, the lonely, the sick, and the person who just needed someone to cheer their day than perhaps any of us!

1 comment:

GMS said...

That's probably why it is said, "And a little child shall lead them". And Jesus said in Matthew 18:3, "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven."
Strong language showing how important attitude and the heart are to God.